Prayer for Preaching

Posted by on Saturday, Jul 23, 2016 in Blog | 0 comments

MY MASTER GOD, I am desired to preach today, but go weak and needy to my task; Yet I long that people might be edified with divine truth, that an honest testimony might be borne for thee; Give me assistance in preaching and prayer, with heart uplifted for grace and unction. Present to my view things pertinent to my subject, with fullness of matter and clarity of thought, proper expressions, fluency, fervency, a feeling sense of the things I preach, and grace to apply them to people’s consciences. Keep me conscious all the while of my defects, and let me not gloat in pride over my performance. Help me to offer a testimony for thyself, and to leave sinners inexcusable in neglecting thy mercy. Give me freedom to open the sorrows of thy people, and to set before them comforting considerations. Attend with power the truth preached, and awaken the attention of my slothful audience. May thy people be refreshed, melted, convicted, comforted, and help me to use the strongest arguments drawn from Christ’s incarnation and sufferings, that men and women might be made holy. I myself need thy support, comfort, strength, holiness, that I might be a pure channel of thy grace, and be able to do something for thee; Give me then refreshment among thy people, and help me not to treat excellent matter in a defective way, or bear a broken testimony to so worthy a redeemer, or be harsh in treating of Christ’s death, its design and end, from lack of warmth and fervency. And keep me in tune with thee as I do this work. Arthur Bennett, The Valley of Vision: A Collection of Puritan Prayers and Devotions (The Banner of Truth Trust, 1975) Leather edition reprinted in 2002....

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150 Years Later

Posted by on Thursday, Aug 27, 2015 in Blog | 2 comments

August 16th I spoke at a church founded by my great-great grandfather, Rev. James Frazier. It’s been 150 years since another ordained Rev. “Frazier” (my maiden name) spoke in the pulpit. I’m still processing the profundity of it. One of the truths I’ve taken from the Book of Ruth is God uses things in our lives that will impact generations to come – and we die not even knowing it. Ruth gave birth to son. She died thinking that little one was God’s way of restoring her (and Naomi’s) life. She never knew the descendent of that little one would save the world. Jesus She never knew. She had a limited view. As I stepped into my great-great grandfather shoes I wondered, “Had he ever prayed for his descendants?” Surely he prayed for his grandchildren but did he pray beyond that? What about his great-great grandchildren? Did he pray for me? That I would be a child of faith? 150 years later I stepped into his pulpit and heralded the life-giving words of Scripture. It reminded me that I live so in the now. Maybe I think about the future but usually it’s the near future. Rarely do I contemplate that God may be weaving something from my life to impact others generations from now.  I have a limited view. We just don’t think 150 years do we? That God is weaving now for later. Way later. Imagine if we did. We would have such hope. Imagine the sense of purpose. Our lives matter. God is at work. Even when or if we can’t see it. Other’s benefit. Not just in the here and now. Not just in the near future. But 150 years from now. Ruth held that baby. I stood in the pulpit. It’s mind-blowing. Actually, it gives me...

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Invite Her to the Table

Posted by on Monday, Jul 20, 2015 in Blog | 7 comments

In August of 2008 I became the first female to preach from the pulpit at Irving Bible Church. Our church’s decision to invite a woman to preach was not well received by some of our brother and sister churches. They sounded the alarm of our church “going liberal” to the local newspaper and TV channels. We decided it best to have Bryan stand by as my body-guard for the three services in which I preached. It took time but things did die down, although I continue to pay a price for my decision. Some folks no longer invite me to speak. Often I’m asked to clarify my position on women or Scripture. Once a senior pastor asked, “What do you think of Scripture?” “Um, I like it. In fact I spend most of my days studying it!” Just this week a young seminarian declined a job with The Marcella Project because she may lose future ministry opportunities by aligning her voice with mine. Truth is – she might. There are consequences. It takes courage. Risk. (I’m resolute that Jesus is worth it.) I spent the next several years at IBC preaching, teaching and training other women to do the same. When I was introduced to Betsy I knew she had the gift of preaching.In fact I was pretty sure she would be the next women preaching from that stage. I told her so. Made her a bit nervous. She wasn’t sure where she stood on women’s issue. I responded, “Well, you better figure it out because the opportunity is going to come and you’ve got to be sure of what you believe.” She borrowed books and dug in – and over time determined the Scriptures gave her freedom to preach under the leadership of her church. She’s been preaching at IBC ever since. Until now. Last night was her last sermon on that stage – at least for a while. She’s taking a break to concentrate on her full-time corporate job. She requested the night of preaching end at our table – the place where our friendship flourished. We ate. Drank wine. Laughed. We talked about why it’s crucial that women preach. That it made the body of Christ more healthy and whole. It was profound listening to our brothers share how they had been impacted by women preaching. It changed them. For better. Women helped them see Scriptures and see Jesus in different ways. And walking along side these female preachers changed how they came to view their sisters. They recognized they needed them at the table. Their presence made them better. The Church better. It was a beautiful to hear one man say, “Betsy, I want to preach...

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Sunglasses and Spiritual Toxins

Posted by on Friday, Jan 30, 2015 in Blog | 0 comments

I live 10 minutes from the DFW airport therefore I rarely find myself flying out of Love Field. But – here I am heading to Houston to teach. And I’m shocked at the changes from the last time I flew out of here. WOW. NICE. I think I even see a pair of sunglasses worth buying. I’m flying to Houston to meet with a small group of women leaders. We’ll meet at a woman’s home and spend several hours walking through our Marcella Salon material on female friendships. I long for women to understand why we compete and compare and the impact of doing so. Not only on us as individual women but as a collective group. Women can do a great work for Jesus when they join hands and collaborate. The next day I speak at their women’s conference. Four message on spiritual toxins – things that keep us from wholeness. Fear. Envy. Biblical Illiteracy. Un-forgiveness. That’s a lot of biblical material to cover in one day. It’s a LOT to listen to … even more to digest. Sure would appreciate your prayers.   I fly home that evening. Love Field isn’t big – I’ll be able to get to my car quickly. And maybe even get those sunglasses.  ...

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Surviving Being Married To An Alpha Woman

Posted by on Thursday, Jan 22, 2015 in Blog | 2 comments

“How are you surviving being married to an Alpha girl?” Recently I caught up with my wife in Michigan where she was training preachers and preaching. She has had an intense run of it here to start the New Year and I like to catch up, when I can, to carry her bags, fetch water or whatever she may need. Our kids would say I’m there to make sure she finds her way home, as Jackie is known to pour herself out to the point of delirium. Hint, don’t ride in the car with her after a long intense weekend of ministry…. you will find yourself quietly humming Nearer My God To Thee! So I’m sitting in the seats of this wonderful little church when this man taps my shoulder and asks me “how I am surviving being married to an Alpha girl? I hesitated for a minute; I have never thought of Jackie with that label, to me she is a passionate gifted woman with extraordinary gifts. Then I responded that we are thriving quite well thank you, as we are both what the world might call “Alpha types” and we enjoy bouncing off of each other. But I cautioned, when it’s good it’s very good, when its bad…well then I would step back a ways. After a chuckle and a pause he responded that he had never heard of two “alpha” types being married; it had never occurred to him that Jackie could be intentional and intense without me being somehow, well – meek and mild. Why do people always assume...

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